Photography was one of his favorite hobbies. He took thousands of pictures of friends, relatives, and celebrations, making albums and wall collages of his works. He also loved his parish where he fully participated in all aspects of the faith community and school. Over the years, he was a member of the Wichita Black Arts Festival Association, the Wichita Kansas Roundup Club and held the position of Grand Knight in the Catholic Fraternal Knights of Peter Claver.
He was married to Regina Roundtree on July 12 1988. They have two daughters, K’Brini and Lea, of the home: a son, Air Force Sgt. Raymond Bryant of Panama City, FL; his father, Arlanders L McGraw Sr., Wichita, KS: sisters, Rosalyn Morrow (Terry) of Glendale, AZ., Katrytae McGraw, Hayward, CA., Sabryne McGraw, North Little Rock, AR., Angela Moore (Lavester) Wichita, Artha Mitchell (Arien), Wichita: brother, Kenneth Washington, South Korea thirty plus god-children and a hose of other relatives and friends.