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– 11/8/1948 – 1/30/2025 – Proverbs 31:28 Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her.
Anita Kaye was lovingly received into Heaven on 01/30/2025. A former resident of Fargo, Oklahoma, since 1970, her and her husband moved to Fairview in 2019 after a brief illness. Born on November 8, 1948, to Lloyd and Hazel Mary (Molen) Scott in Mooreland, Oklahoma. Her dad lovingly nicknamed her “Skeeter”. Anita grew up in Gage, surrounded by her siblings and her beloved maternal grandfather. His unwavering faith and devotion to Jesus Christ made a significant impression on her. At just 10 years old, she dedicated her life to Jesus, a decision that would deeply shape her journey. Following the loss of her grandfather, Anita frequently found comfort in reflecting on his guidance as she walked with the Lord. She graduated from Gage High School in 1967, and shortly after, spent time with an aunt and uncle in New Jersey. Ultimately, Anita returned to Northwest Oklahoma to make her home. Her life was a testament to compassion, faith, and the enduring impact of family.
Anita's passion for Christ left a lasting impression on everyone she met. She was baptized at Gage Artisian Beach and later received the Holy Spirit in November 1987. Over the years, she remained actively involved in the Church of God and later in the Assembly of God Church, serving as a Sunday school teacher and later as the church secretary.
In 1969 Anita Kaye was united in marriage. That union was blessed with three daughters, whom she lovingly referred to as “her girls”: Melissa Cheriee’, Melody Christine, and Marla Cher-lyn. She was a dedicated and hardworking individual who often reminded her daughters that with faith as small as a mustard seed, anything is possible. To emphasize this belief, she would bring out her mustard seed necklace to illustrate that even a tiny amount of faith can move mountains.
She took immense pride in her daughters. As they grew older, they found humor in the mischief they got into, especially when she would try to call out their names, often mixing them up before finally getting it right. Anita’s unwavering faith served as a strong foundation for her family, and she lovingly emphasized the importance of serving Jesus in their lives.
Anita was always losing her keys. Whenever she misplaced them, she would call one of her daughters or her sister to pray for them to be found.
Anita loved her siblings. She had a special bond with her sister, and up until Anita's dementia progressed, they spoke every day, sometimes several times a day. They shared many things in life from crying together when Elvis Presley died to everyday family crisis. If you were ever in a room with them, you could hear their contagious laughter, even if you didn't understand what was so funny. Carol reminisced about how dedicated Anita had been to her when they were younger. Whenever someone picked on Carol at school, Anita would step in to protect her. So, when Anita wanted longer hair, Carol decided to return the favor. She had heard that putting Vaseline in your hair could help it grow. Unfortunately, Anita ended up missing a week of school, and the Vaseline did not work as intended.
Through the years she often attended her family gatherings which included her parents and siblings. They shared many laughs and she often talked about her sibling bonds. They all remember when she was learning to drive and accidentally turned the family vehicle into a tree-hugging enthusiast. She often talked about her brother Elvis and his fondness for his plane. She referred to her youngest brother as “brother Bob”. He provided Anita with one of her first cars, a turquoise Mustang. As her family grew, she ended up trading if for a station wagon.
As siblings and throughout life her brothers were always there when needed.
She enjoyed spending time reading the Bible and other Christian books. If you opened one of the books she had read, you would likely find a receipt taped inside. She did this because she often carried the book to work; after retiring, it became a habitual practice. Additionally, she loved singing and playing the piano. Over the years, her hobbies included painting, embroidery, and crafting items with plastic canvas. She once made alphabet blocks and a train for her grandson Michael as well as a doll and clothes for her granddaughter Chasity. At one point, everyone around her received a plastic canvas Kleenex box as a gift.
In 1982, Anita met the love of her life, Russell Brawley. They were united in marriage on September 10, 1982, at the Church of God in Gage, Oklahoma. They made their home in Fargo, Oklahoma. Over the years, they started a truck company, where Russell would drive long distances. There were times when Anita wanted to accompany him, but she always looked forward to returning home. He taught her how to fish, and they would travel to Missouri to visit family. On one such trip they stopped to grab some groceries at Aldi’s. She was unaware the store does not provide bags for purchases. While checking out she noticed the lady currently checking out was going to use all the carryout bags on the counter. Wanting to ensure she had bags Anita grabbed a couple. After getting a confused look from the other customer and an awkward moment, it was brought to her attention that the store does not provide bags. Feeling extremely embarrassed at the time she tried to return the bags. She ended up snagging a couple of free grocery bags and years of laughter over the whole thing.
One of her greatest joys in life was the time she cherished with her family. Every moment spent with her beloved husband, Russell, and their daughters filled her heart with warmth and happiness. She created a nurturing home making lasting memories through family gatherings and simple everyday moments. Her unwavering love, and genuine devotion to her family were evident in everything she did.
Anita was a prayer warrior and spent many hours praying over her family. Anointing her girls with oil when they were sick, waking them up for school by singing to them.
Melody recalls when she was five years old knelling next to her moms’ bed as her mother prayed that God would give her the gift to sing. Anita loved her many private concerts to the end of her life.
Melissa remembers the many times of prayer in which her mother was always there. From the simplest things to life’s toughest times. As Anita developed dementia she promised Melissa she would never “forget her girls”. As her disease progressed, there were very few times in which she did not indicate that she knew who they were.
She is survived by her loving husband Russell, daughter, Melissa and Michael McDonald of Cleo Springs, OK, Melody and Brian Byrd of Hennessey, Ok, step-son Joshua Brawley of Ellington, Missouri and son-in-law Justin Willard of Waukomis, Oklahoma. Grandchildren – Michael & Brandy Jones, Chasity & Wyatt Kelln, Tyler Byrd, Trenton Byrd, Grady, & Gabrielle Willard. Great grand Children, Leland & Austin Jones, and Kinsley Kelln, Sister Carol Gonser, and brothers Elvis and Bobby Scott. She has many nieces and nephews and will be greatly missed.
Anita was proceeded in death by her parents, Lloyd & Mary (Molen) Scott, daughter Marla Willard, son -in-law Leroy Jones, her granddaughter Gracelyn Kay Willard, niece Connie Havel, and numerous other family members.
Matthew 17:20 - He said to them, “Because of your little faith. For truly, I say to you, if you have faith like a grain of mustard seed, you will say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there,’ and it will move, and nothing will be impossible for you.”
In lieu of flowers, those planning on expression of sympathy may wish to consider a memorial donation to the Alzheimer’s Association.
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