Ilene Dora (Draper) Branen, rodeo-er, seamstress,
gardener, painter, glass and ceramics artist, and
beloved mother and grandmother passed away on April 15,
2019.
Born in Mulhall, OK on October 12, 1922, Ilene was the
daughter of Edward Eugene Draper and Almeda (Stagner)
Draper. She endured many hardships as a girl, losing
several of her six siblings in tragic accidents. “Life
is hard,” Ilene was known for saying, “but you just have
to keep a-going.”
Life got sweeter for Ilene
in the summer of 1938 when she first met Alta Branen. He
was riding a horse from Marshall to Mulhall and happened
to see Ilene out in the front yard of her parent’s home.
He stopped to visit and the next week asked her to a
dance at the Potter Church. Alta and Ilene were married
just a few months later on January 20, 1939.
They had 55 more years of dancing together before Alta
died in 1994, and boy, did they make the most of it.
Alta and Ilene were members of a square dance club, The
Country Swingers, and enjoyed traveling with the club to
square dance competitions.
Ilene ran many businesses and held countless titles over
the course of her life. She waitressed at Orlando’s
Pfieffer Café, served as the RCA Rodeo Secretary and
managed Branen’s Service Station. For 32 years, she was
the office manager and book keeper for the company she
and Alta owned, Branen’s Motor Services. She also owned
Ilene’s Ceramics in Orlando, was the Orlando Senior
Citizens Center Director and taught Sunday school at the
First Christian Church. How did she seemingly run the
entire town of Orlando while also raising a family?
We’re not sure, but she was always good at getting
things done.
There was one title Ilene particularly loved: Granny.
Alta and Ilene’s three children (Lois, Leonard and
Patsy) each raised their families nearby and Alta and
Ilene were close with their nine grandchildren. Granny
always had her kitchen stocked with her grandchildren’s
favorite treats: chocolate cake, Hostess Twinkies, Oreos
and bologna and cheese for sandwiches.
She was also locally sourcing organic produce and meat
years before our grocery stores. Ilene taught her
children and grandchildren how to can vegetables and
jam. She let them pop fresh tomatoes and strawberries
straight into their mouths from her garden. She could
catch a fish just as skillfully as she could cook it and
early in her marriage was known to go out hunting in the
afternoon for the meat she’d later serve the family for
dinner that night.
Ilene was a talented seamstress. She sewed western
shirts, dresses and doll clothes. She handmade dozens of
beautiful quilts and blankets, making sure each of her
grandchildren and great grandchildren had something
created especially for them.
The last three years of Ilene’s life were spent at Green
Valley nursing home. When she moved in, she brought her
parrot (Petey), several house plants and lots of candy
for the grandkids. She reluctantly left her police
scanner at home.
Ilene met many friends at the nursing home and did her
best to care for them when they were feeling blue. If
there was a prize for most-visited Green Valley
resident, Ilene would have won it. Her children,
grandchildren, great grandchildren and great great
grandchildren visited her and Petey often. Even in her
90s, Ilene knew all the details of her kids’ lives. Her
children and grandchildren brought her great joy and she
loved exchanging stories with them.
The end of a life is never easy. Our family is comforted
by the many, many happy moments Ilene enjoyed over the
last 96 years. We’re also grateful for Ilene’s six
doting granddaughters who lovingly took turns caring for
their Granny over the last several weeks.
Finally, in honor of Granny, we ask that you consider
planning a camping trip with some friends or maybe host
a big family Christmas with a visit from Santa Claus.
Take a child shopping or out for ice cream. Go to an
auction and bid on something you don’t need. Create a
beautiful piece of art with your hands. Throw a line.
Drink a Pepsi. We’ll think of her whenever we do these
things and she’ll be with us always.
Preceding Ilene in death were her husband, Alta Ratliff
Branen, her parents Ed and Almeda Draper and her six
siblings Vadia Phillips, Willard Draper, Orville Draper,
Billy Draper, Dorothy Bounds, Della Montgomery.
Ilene is survived by her children: Lois Branen Smith
(Jim) of Perry, Leonard Branen (Marilyn) of Perry, Patsy
Branen of Missouri; Grandchildren: Tonya Smith Schwartz
(Dan), Brenda Branen Wise (Martin), Yolanda Bower Moody
(Scott), Alisha Smith Kirtley (Shan), Amy Branen Abraham
(Vince), Bobbie Sue Bower (Jeffrey), Rhyan Bower (Lori),
Shane Zerr (Loren), Brent Zerr (Stephanie); Great
Grandchildren: Justin Schwartz, Jeremy Schwartz,
Brigette Zorn, Branen Kirtley, Josh Thompson, Tori
Thompson, Tessa Thompson, Julia Waldrup, Hope Conder,
Austin North, Tuff Alstrom, Drew Alstrom, Rhyan Scott
Bower, Taylor Zerr, Colton Zerr, Reese Zerr, Wren Zerr,
Wright Zerr, Weston Zerr, Walker Zerr; Great Great
Grandchildren: Jenna Thompson, Aspen Atkinson, Brenley
Thompson, Zachary Zorn, Bower Alstrom, Lillian Schwartz.
A celebration of her life will be held at the First
Christian Church, at 10 a.m. on Monday, April 22, 2019
with Reverend Joshua Bell officiating, assisted by
Reverend Joshua Kerr.
She will be laid to rest next to
her husband following the service at Grace Hill
Cemetery.
The viewing will be held on Saturday from 8
a.m. to 8 p.m. with family greeting friends from 5 p.m.
to 7 p.m.
Memorial contributions may be made to the Judith Karman
Hospice Inc, or Relay For Life in care of Trout Funeral
Home of Perry, 1408 N. 7th Street, Perry, OK 73077.
The
family would like for you to share your memories at www.troutperry.com
Honorary Pallbearers are Tonya Schwartz, Brenda Wise,
Yolanda Moody, Alisha Kirtley, Amy Abraham, Bobbie Sue
Bower. Pallbearers are Tuff Alstrom, Drew Alstrom,
Branen Kirtley, Jeremy Schwartz, Josh Thompson, Austin
North, Shane Zerr, Brent Zerr.