On Nov. 28, 1988, she married to A. Don Smith. After their marriage, A. Don and Joy owned and operated A. Don’s Restaurant in Wetumka. They retried to their farm in Sasakwa in 2001. She enjoyed traveling and all sporting events, in particular, the Texas Rangers and Dallas Cowboys games. Mrs. Smith loved nature, especially the ocean and bird watching. She was well known for her green thumb and her beautiful flower and vegetable gardens.
Preceding her in death were her parents, former husband, Boyce Dale Blackburn Sr., and a brother, Melvin Lindley.
Survivors include her husband, A. Don Smith of the home; a daughter, Pamela Chastain and husband, John of Wetumka; two sons, Boyce Dale Blackburn and wife Gayle, of Stillwater, and Ira J. Blackburn and wife, Billie, of Stillwater; grandchildren, Valerie Blackburn, Edmond, Amy Kent and husband, Brad, Wetumka, John Tyler Chastain and wife Cortney, Oklahoma City, Catherine Brown and husband Bryan, Edmond, and Jessica Blackburn, Stillwater; four great grandchildren, Holden and Parker Brown, Edmond, and Clancy and Hudson Kent, Wetumka; four sisters, Wanda Collins and husband, Elmer, Norman, Linda Hardage, Enid, Hazel Elliot and husband, Marlin, Richland, Mo., and Christine Johnson, Thomasville, GA.; and two brothers, M.C. (Pete) Lindley and wife Leola, Calvin, and Elvin Lindley, Stuart.
Pallbearers were John Tyler Chastain, Brad Kent, Bryan Brown, Brian Gobhart, Tony Prettenhoffer, Lindsey Maas, and Jared Norman.