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Norman, Oklahoma May 18, 2021 December 29, 1940 ~ November 20, 2022 Charles Edward Dean, Sr. was born in Pauls Valley, Oklahoma on December 29, 1940 to George and Oleta Dean. He died on November 20, 2022 at home in Norman, Oklahoma. He is survived by his children: Rhonda Carol []Kyncl] and her husband, David, of Norman; Charles Edward Jr and his wife, Cassy, of Osceola, Missouri; his grandchildren Trevor Clay Dean, Mary Eleanor Kyncl, Maddison Paige Dean, and Jonathan David Kyncl; and his younger brother, Harvey and his wife Sharon of Pittsburg, Kansas. Charles served as a pastor for over 50 years. His pastoral calling was unmistakable. He was fond of saying that, "Some were called; some were chosen; and some just got up and went." Charles was called. His pastoral philosophy and lifestyle were simple: show up and choose love. He served churches, first, in the Assemblies of God denomination in Byng, Oklahoma; Independence, Kansas; Colby, Kansas; Durant, Oklahoma and Pauls Valley, Oklahoma. Even after his official retirement as a full-time pastor in 2007 and subsequent move to Norman, he continued to shepherd: first, for the Norman Community Church of the Nazarene, and finally, for CrossPointe Church. In these final appointments, Charles was first an encouragement to those in leadership. He also responded quickly to any and every need he was made aware of. He visited many in the hospital and in nursing homes, accompanied many as they navigated life's trials, and he faithfully stewarded those experiencing loss. His prayers were born from his own experience of loss; Charles deeply felt the death of his wife of 58 years, Carolyn, in August of last year. He felt her absence profoundly and true to his Godly commitment, he responded by generously serving others. He served in CrossPointe's Food Pantry weekly as well as at the Men's Prayer Breakfast. In turn, he was sustained by his church family, enjoying their fellowship, their hospitality, the food they consistently provided, and a couple of fishing trips to Branson. Charles was a most attentive father, grandfather, brother, and uncle. His brother and sister-in-law, Harvey and Sharon Dean, his sister-in-law, Evelyn Stevens, and his children and grandchildren were especially significant to him in the last year. He loved us extravagantly. He never ended a conversation or an event without reminding us of that love. He enjoyed burgers every Saturday at the 405 Burger Bar with us and lunch every Sunday. And even in the most challenging last four weeks of his life, at the end of each and every interaction, he never failed to say again that, "[He] sure did love us." In his hobbies and recreational pursuits, Charles also demonstrated his care and concern for others. He was fond of visiting "the greens," the golf greens that is, and there too, he was a source of encouragement, offering joyful conversation, prayers, and marrying services. He was also fond of donut shops and had significant "coffee house ministries" wherever he lived and worked. He had a contagious sense of humor and never took himself too seriously. He was quick to laugh, unceasingly patient, and always chose to believe that good would prevail. If you were known by Charles Dean, you were loved by Charles Dean. And that love was attentive, gentle, and unconditional…a radiant example for us all. |
Norman, Oklahoma August 1021 September 1942 ~ August 28, 2021 Mary Carolyn Dean, née Mainord, was born in Seminole, Oklahoma on September 24, 1942 to Grover and Bertha Mainord. She died on August 28, 2021 at home in Norman, Oklahoma. She is survived by her husband, Charles, to whom she had been married for over 58 years – a testament to her patience. For most of their married lives, Carolyn served the families that she and Charles pastored in Byng, Oklahoma; Independence, Kansas; Colby, Kansas; Durant, Oklahoma; Pauls Valley, Oklahoma; and finally, Norman, Oklahoma. Of course, she cared for Charles too, ensuring that he didn't embarrass himself too much, both by ensuring his ties and socks matched and correcting his improper English. Carolyn was in every sense of the word a home-maker; her home was her center. She devoted herself to making her home a place that was warm and inviting. Through her attention to order, her insistence on keeping her home ready for company, and her cooking, she made sure that everyone felt welcomed and cared for from the time they walked in the door. Her home was always ready for you, no matter when you showed up. When she wasn't cooking or cleaning, Carolyn could often be found sewing, cross-stitching, or crocheting. If you knew her, you have undoubtedly received one of her creations for a special occasion or life event: they were made with the utmost care, and they were given with unconditional love. Carolyn is survived by her two children: Rhonda, and her husband, David of Norman, Oklahoma; and Charles, Jr., and his wife, Cassy of Osceola, Missouri. Carolyn also cared deeply for her four grandchildren: Trevor, Mary, Maddison, and Jonathan. She entertained them for weeks at a time when they were young, planning daily activities outside or taking them on trips. And while she seriously valued the orderliness and cleanliness of her home, when it came to her grandchildren, those rules went out the window. Carolyn is also survived by four of her sisters: Marcine Roberson, Delores Jennings, Evelyn Stevens, and Linda Tipton, husband, Lynn; one brother: Gilbert Mainord, several nieces, great-nieces, nephews, and great-nephews. And her cherished brother and sister-in-law Harvey and Sharon Dean of Pittsburg, KS, as well as their children and grandchildren. Her favorite family events were the annual Mainord family reunion and shopping trips to The Outlet Shoppes in Branson, Missouri. When she and Charles retired from full-time pastoring in 2007, Carolyn focused on making one more home for the two of them. They continued investing in others even in their retirement, first at Norman Community Church of the Nazarene and at CrossPointe Church most recently. The center of Carolyn's life remained her home and her family. She made lunch for them every Sunday, and she continued to care for them until the end, to ask about their activities and their lives, and to focus on others. Even during her cancer treatment, she was gracious, kind, and a blessing to everyone she encountered. Ultimately, Carolyn demonstrated that her house was indeed in order, both inside and out. Memorials may be made to Excell Hospice, 1200 SW 104th, Suite D, Oklahoma City, OK 7313 Source: Wooster Funeral Home |
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