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Ted Elton May Jr., an Atoka resident, was born on November 16, 1959, to Sandra Lou (Hayes) Graham, at Wilmington, NC. He passed away on September 15, 2025 at Denison, TX, at the age of 65 years, 9 months and 30 days. Ted graduated from Ruffin High School and went on to receive an Associate's Degree in Cosmetology in Rocky Mount, NC. He was a hair stylist. Ted loved antiquing, going to thrift stores, going out to eat with family and friends, going to church any chance he got, and his dog, Shiloh.
SURVIVED BY
SIBLINGS: Crystal Carroll of Coalgate, OK, Jake Trevathan and wife Bonnie of Coalgate, OK, Wendy Cops-Wise of Tushka, OK
NEPHEWS: Jake Trevathan and wife Penny of Coalgate, OK, Eric Trevathan and wife Jamaica of Coalgate, OK, Derek Trevathan of Colbert, OK, Marshal Phillips of Denison, TX
NIECES: Haley Camp and husband Jesse of Lane, OK, Diamond Fleck and husband Stuart of Lone Grove, OK
COUSIN: Pam Harper and husband Woody of NC
AUNTS: Becky Strickland of NC, Frankie May of NC, and Patsy Fisher of Castalia, NC
UNCLE: Jimmie May of NC
Along with numerous aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and cousins.
PRECEDED IN DEATH BY
MOTHER: Sandra Lou (Hayes) Graham
AUNT: Edith Fisher
SISTER: Robin Phillips
NIECE: Stephanie Carroll
GRANDMOTHER: Lillie May
DATE OF SERVICES: 10:00 AM Thursday, September 18th, 2025
PLACE OF SERVICES: Brown's Funeral Chapel, Coalgate, Oklahoma
OFFICIATING: Pastor Johnathan Hogue
INTERMENT: Woodman Cemetery
CASKETBEARERS: Eric Trevathan, Jake Trevathan, Jesse Camp, Stuart Fleck, Joshua Fleck, Mike Taylor
HONORARY CASKETBEARERS:
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