Kathryn Louise "Kathy" (Farrell) Havener
Sep 23, 1955 - Feb 7, 2023
Posted by Jo Aguirre

Wilson Funeral Home
(permission granted)

Kathy was the middle child of 4 brothers Greg, Mark, Jeff and James Farrell. She was a very tough gal because well she had to be. She was a heck of a basketball player, she played piano and clarinet, and was eventually the Drum Major of the Kingfisher Highschool Band. Robert (Bobby) Havener Jr. was lucky enough to be introduced to Kathy in 1974 and shortly thereafter tied the knot on November 19th, 1976. A few wild and crazy years later they had their first accident Robert (Trey) Havener, III in 1982 and a couple years later another, Krista Nicole Havener, in 1984. They lived a happy life in El Reno from 1987 until Bobby passed away in 2020. Kathy worked at McBride Clinic now known as McBride Orthopedic Hospital in many many different areas and probably would have done maintenance if they'd have let her. Although it's a good thing they didn't. She worked there with Bobby and Trey for around 30 years. Kathy loved her grandbabies above nearly all else: Jocelyn Jenkins, Aidan Jenkins, Sophia Bradley, Ella Havener and last but not least Maxton Havener. Papa and Gigi spoiled the babies at every possible turn and made sure they were well taken care of. If you were lucky enough Kathy would crochet you a liver shaped blanket. They are very very warm though and pretty. She will be missed greatly by all who loved her, but will be greeted warmly by those who left us before her. Kathy and Bobby are partying hard in Heaven. I just hope they save a little for the rest of us.

Kathy was preceded in death by mother and father Betty and Joe Farrell, brothers Mark Farrell and Greg Farrell, Father in Law Robert (Bob) Havener Sr. and the love of her life Bobby Havener.

She leaves her legacy with her son Trey and his wife Brandi Havener of Yukon also with her daughter Krista Havener of Florence, Colorado, her five precious grandchildren, her brothers Jeff Farrell and his wife Paula Farrell, and James and his wife Jennifer Farrell, sister in law Debbie Farrell all of Kingfisher, OK, her mother in law Norma Havener of El Reno, OK , brother in law Steve and wife Sherry Havener, of Leedy, OK and sister in law N'Lisa Havener of El Reno, OK and many many precious nieces and nephews and a great many friends.

A celebration of life for Kathy will be held at 2:00 p.m., on Thursday, February 9, 2023 at the El Reno First Baptist Church with Steve Havener officiating.

Burial will follow in the El Reno Cemetery.

Come and go viewing will be held at Wilson Funeral Home on Wednesday, January 8 from 11:00 a.m. - 8:00 p.m. with family greeting friends from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.