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Joseph Mack, Esther Frances (Vermillion) & Elmo Carl Whitehead, Sr.
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Sayre-Doxey Cemetery
Sayre, Beckham County, Oklahoma
© Eunice Chapmond-Kilgore

Elmo Sr was a SeaBee in the US Navy serving in WW II

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Thank You For Your Service!

Oct 18, 1922 - Feb 22, 2014
Obit by Martha Reddoutt

 


Whinery Funeral Service
Sayre, OK
(permission granted)

Esther Frances Whitehead was born to Mack Eber Vermillion Bessie Mae (White) Vermillion on her family's farm north of Sayre, Oklahoma in the Berlin community on October 28, 1922. She left her place on earth for her heavenly home on February 22, 2014 at the Sayre Memorial Hospital.
 

Frances was preceded in death by her husband; two sons; a daughter; a grandson; her parents; six brothers and five sisters.
 
She is survived by her daughters; Andrea Reed and husband, Nick, Susan Spieker and husband, Daniel, Melody Kiener and husband, Joe, all of Sayre, Oklahoma and Carlene Mennen and her husband, Peter, of St. Helena, California. Frances was blessed with 14 grandchildren; 34 great grandchildren and 5 great great grandchildren. Also surviving is her youngest brother, Arthur Wayne Vermillion of Seguin, Texas as well as many nieces, nephews, cousins and dearly loved friends.
 
Frances loved to learn and this was the result of being allowed to visit school with her older siblings when only three years of age. Her formal education began with the Primer at Berlin School and ended when she graduated as valedictorian of her class at Doxey School in 1940. She had hoped to attend college but lacked the finances so she walked eight miles to Sayre each day to work as a nurse's aide at the Sayre Hospital of Fifth Street. After working there for a year she decided to go to work for Southwestern Bell Telephone Company for two years while her future husband served in the Navy Seabees on Guadalcanal in the South Pacific during World War II. 
 
Frances married Elmo Carl Whitehead on September 16, 1944 in Sayre following his medical discharge from the Navy. They lived on the farm for a short time before moving to town to begin their family. When Elmo opened an auto body shop in Elk City they moved there for a few years, but the farm was calling to Frances and she begged her husband to find them a place where she could do the things she enjoyed the most. After renting land for several years her dream was realized when they bought a farm southwest of Sayre. There they raised their growing family while she milked her Jersey cows, grew a garden, planted fruit trees, canned the fruits and vegetables and sewed clothes for her girls.
 
Following the death of her husband in 1973, Frances realized she needed to find a job to support herself and her youngest daughter who was still at home. She began working at Farm Bureau and then took a job with the U.S. Post Office in Sayre. Frances finished her career in the Beckham County Treasurer's office having worked there for ten years. After her retirement she loved filling in for Loretta Hall at the Beckham County Assessor's office and continued to do so until she was 80 years of age.
 
Frances was a long time member of the Sayre First Baptist Church where she worked in the nursery and taught an adult women's class.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to the Baptist Children's Home, the Oklahoma Medical Research Foundation or a charity of your choice.

Services will be held Tuesday, February 25, 2014 at 2:00 pm at Sayre First Baptist Church officiated by Charlie Henthorn. Burial will be at Sayre-Doxey Cemetery under the direction of Rose Chapel Funeral Service. Condolences can be made online at www.whineryfs.com

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