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Jean Lavonne Fetzer Hughes © Alva Review-Courier 01-2020 Submitted by: Jo Aguirre
October 17, 1934 - January 3, 2020
Jean Lavonne, daughter of Ruth (Barrett) and Dale Fetzer, was born on October 17, 1934, in Helena, Oklahoma. Jean was one of ten children born to Ruth and Dale Fetzer. She passed away with all her family by her side on January 3, 2020, at 85 years of age.
Jean graduated high school from Helena, Oklahoma, in 1952. After high school, she attended Oklahoma A&M in Stillwater where she met the love of her life, Benjamin Warren Hughes. On August 15, 1953, Jean and Ben were married in Helena. Following their marriage, she continued her education and graduated with a bachelor of science in education from Oklahoma A&M.
After graduation, Jean taught school briefly in Ponca City before the couple moved to Okarche to put down roots and start their family. Three children were added to their family: Dean, Cindy and Doug. Jean was a homemaker until her children reached school age, at which time she resumed her career in elementary education in the Okarche School system. She took great pride in giving her students the building blocks of their education and enjoyed the eagerness in their desire to learn.
In 1972 the family returned to their home town areas and settled in Carmen. She continued to teach elementary education in the Carmen-Dacoma school system until she retired in 1985. She was a member of the Carmen United Methodist Church where she served on the church board, taught Sunday school and sang in the choir.
Jean enjoyed the summers in South Fork, Colorado, where she and her husband spent time in their home along the Rio Grande River. They fished, explored mountain trails, and enjoyed watching birds and hummingbirds in their Colorado garden. She loved sewing, reading, singing in the choir at the community church, The Chapel of South Fork, and going for walks with her Colorado neighbors.
Of all things, Jean loved being a wife, mother, and grandma to her grandchildren and great-grandchildren. She loved showering her family and friends with love and affection, giving encouragement when needed, and unconditional love at all times. She was never so happy as to share in the joy and delights of the new adventures in all of their lives.
Jean was preceded in death by her husband, Ben of 65 years; her parents, and eight siblings.
Jean is survived by her three children, Dean and wife Christa Hughes, Cindy and husband David Eimen, and Doug Hughes and best friend Lisa Wells; her brother, Paul and wife Nina Fetzer; sisters in law Nancy Fetzer and Norma Fetzer; brothers in law Dale and wife Donna Hughes, and Donnie and wife Ruby Hughes; grandchildren and great-grandchildren Andrea and Jay Lohmann and their children (Jordan, Jagger and Adley), Aaron and Dana Hughes and their children (Drake and Aubree), Tatum Hughes; Dustin Eimen; Michael and Kelsey Eimen and their son (Tucker); Greg and Chrissy Eimen; as well numerous nephews, nieces, other relatives and friends.
Jean made a lasting impact on many with her ability to love, support, guide and encourage.
Funeral service for Jean will be Wednesday, January 8, 2020, at 11 a.m. at the United Methodist Church in Carmen. There will be a private family burial before the service. Arrangements are by Lanman Funeral Home, Inc. of Helena. Online condolences may be made to http://www.lanmanmemorials.com.
Memorials may be made to OSU Foundation-Ben Hughes Family Scholarship in memo or charity of donor's choice through the funeral home.
Benjamin Warren Hughes © Alva Review-Courier 07-10-2019 Submitted by: Jo Aguirre
December 31, 1933 - July 7, 2019
Benjamin Warren Hughes, son of Mildred Dale Hughes and Orval Hughes, was born on December 31, 1933, in Aline, Oklahoma. He passed away with family by his side on July 6, 2019, at the age 85 years.
Ben graduated high school in Aline. After high school he attended Oklahoma A & M in Stillwater. Ben was a member of the Farm House Fraternity, and also a member of the national meat judging team. Ben graduated with a double major, a bachelor of science in agriculture education and in animal science.
On August 15, 1953, in Helena, Ben married Jean Lavonne Fetzer. Following their marriage, they made their home in Okarche, where three children were added to their family: Dean, Cindy and Doug. Ben taught vocational agriculture at Okarche High School where he helped many of his FFA students succeed at stock shows and in leadership development.
After teaching high school, Ben worked as a nutritionist for a feedlot in the panhandle of Oklahoma and later as a banker at Kingfisher Bank & Trust. In 1972 he returned to his hometown area of Carmen, where he enjoyed farming, ranching and building a family farming operation until his retirement. He was a member of the Carmen United Methodist Church.
Ben enjoyed fly fishing in South Fork, Colorado, where he and his wife spent the summers, racing thoroughbred horses, and spending time with his family.
He was preceded in death by his parents and his sister, Betty Jean.
Ben is survived by his wife, Jean; their three children, Dean Hughes and wife Christa, Cindy Eimen and husband David, Doug Hughes and best friend Lisa Wells; siblings Dale Hughes and wife Donna, and Don Hughes and wife Ruby. He is also survived by his grandchildren and great-grandchildren Andrea and Jay Lohmann and their children Jordan, Jagger and Adley; Aaron and Dana Hughes and children Drake and Aubree; Tatum Hughes; Dustin Eimen; Michael and Kelsey Eimen and child Tucker; and Greg and Chrissy Eimen, as well numerous nephews, nieces, other relatives and friends.
The funeral service for Ben will be Thursday, July 11, 2019, at 11 a.m. at Carmen United Methodist Church. Arrangements are by Lanman Funeral Home, Inc. of Helena. Viewing will be Wednesday from 1 p.m. until 7 p.m. at Wentworth Funeral Home in Carmen. Online condolences may be made at http://www.lanmanmemorials.com.
Memorials may be given to Oklahoma State University in the Ben Hughes Family Scholarship – or to the charity of the donor's choice – through the funeral home.
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